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  • News for 10th March

    The Gift of a Mother

    God, in His infinite mercy, has given us a mother. Some of us still have our mothers around; some might have lost their mothers after birth, but the point remains, which is we all have a mother. A mother is a gift that God has given to all of us, and we must appreciate and cherish them because their role is vital. A mother is an excellent gift from God himself and He alone. God has bestowed on us many gifts, but the gift of a mother is unique, which is why it is important to cherish and celebrate.

    God made the Blessed Virgin Mary a mother through the Holy Spirit’s power; through this, we receive salvation. The Blessed Virgin Mary sacrificed everything for the baby Jesus, which is what every mother does: sacrifice everything for the child. At the birth of a baby, all that the mother thinks of is the child’s well-being, even to the detriment of her own life. 

     No mother can say that she does not go through trials; every mother goes through it. To be honest, mothers have worries, challenges, struggles, pains, failures and many more, but they are always focused, and their main aim is to make their children better people. Because of this, they put all their difficulties aside and press on to reach their goals. Amanda Idleman, contributing to the article ‘5 Ways Mothers are Truly a Gift from God’ (April 19th, 2023), wrote “Mothers lay down their bodies, give up their sleep, cry many tears, pray so many prayers, and hope daily that God writes a good story for our kids. Sometimes, we hope this despite our failings.” While reading this, I began to reflect on how my mother could take care of me and my five siblings. A mother is a gift indeed. Mothers, you are indeed a blessing.

    Other News

    The funeral services of the late Wayne Campbell is on This Tuesday 12th March at 11:00 am and that of the late Simone Gomez is on this Wednesday 13th March at 1:30 pm, here in St. Anselm.

    If you want to be baptized or know somebody who want to be baptized on Easter Sunday, please see Fr Josiah for a baptism form.

    Please take note of the services for Palm Sunday and Holy Week: 

    24th March – Palm Sunday – 10am, The Children will be building the Easter Garden after Mass

    Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of Holy Week – 3pm, Stations of the Cross, 7pm Confessions and 7:30pm High Mass

    28th – Maundy Thursday – 8pm High Mass of the Lord’s Supper with Washing of feet

    29th – Good Friday – 3pm Liturgy of the Passion with Veneration of the Cross

    31st – Easter Sunday, Easter Mass with Procession – 10am

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 3rd March

    Lenten Sacrifice

    Lenten Sacrifice is when we decide to give up something we love eating or doing. When we give up those things, we can save a few coins that we then give to the less privileged. In the community, many people find it challenging to get standard well-being kinds of stuff like clothing to keep themselves warm and even food to eat. We are encouraged to give alms and support the less privileged during Lent. Our Lenten sacrifices will help us save some coins, and we must give these out to support others. What is little for you is many for someone; nothing to you is something to a brother or sister, and what is old is new for the other.

    God first demonstrated giving by giving unto us His only begotten Son so that we will receive salvation. We must support others not only when we feel comfortable but whenever the opportunity arises because through giving, we receive the blessings of God. 

    Luke 6:38 says, “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap; for the measure you give will be the measure you get back.” Every child of God must be able to give freely to support others because giving is a virtue.

    It is the will of God that we give, and whenever we give, we become more prosperous. “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.” (Proverbs 11:25). During this lent, let us make our Lenten Sacrifices a blessing to others because whenever we bless others, we bless ourselves.

    Fr. Josiah

    Other News

    The funeral services of the late Wayne Campbell is on Tuesday 12th March at 11:00 am and that of the late Simone Gomez is on Wednesday 13th March at 1:30 pm, here in St. Anselm.

    There is Sunday School after Mass

    Fr. Matthew and Family are extending an invitation to us for his Leaving Party, drop by and say farewell to Fr. Matthew, Catherine and Edmund this Friday 8th March at Hayes Working Men’s Club. Time is 7pm.

    Please take note that the new parish whattsapp number has changed to  07452709238 (It’s whattapp only, no texts) 

    The Torfaen Male Voice Choir, The Internationally acclaimed Welsh Male Voice Choir Present an Evening of Amazing Male Voice Music on this Saturday 9th March at 7pm here in St. Anselm. Early Bird Ticket is £3 Standard Ticket is £4 and On The Door Ticket is £5. Tickets and more information at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 18th February

    Praying in Lent

    It is essential to note the importance of prayer in the spiritual life of every Christian. When we are in Lent, Prayer becomes even more crucial because our focus is always on God.

    Lent is a period where we focus on prayer, penance, fasting, and almsgiving. Most of the time, when we hear about Lent, all that may come to mind is fasting, and we tend to forget about the other things that come with Lent to make this holy period blissful. Prayer is an integral part of Lent and is essential in our Christian journey. 

    We pray during Lent to ask for God’s unmatched mercy and love. When we pray, we establish a relationship with God, allowing us to tell Him who he is to us, praise Him, present our humble request to Him, and express our appreciation. When we fail to pray, our relationship with God breaks down. 

    Our relationship with God, i.e. the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, is that of speaking to him and listening. When we pray during Lent, we meditate on the sacrifice of Jesus Christ that led to man’s salvation; this helps us connect and cement our relationship with God.

    It is worth noting that prayer is the lifeblood of every Christian and must be the foundation of our spiritual life. Martin Luther wrote this clearly: “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.” Let us not belittle the importance of prayer because it is our way of communicating with our maker and opening ourselves up for his response. Let us not worry too much, rather, we must speak to the Lord in prayer because “the fervent prayer of the righteous man availeth much.” (James 5:16b)

    Fr. Josiah

    Other News

    The Torfaen Male Voice Choir, The Internationally acclaimed Welsh Male Voice Choir Present an Evening of Amazing Male Voice Music on Saturday 9th March at 7pm here in St. Anselm. Early Bird Ticket is £3 Standard Ticket is £4 and On The Door Ticket is £5. Tickets and more information at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/

    The funeral services of Lisa Welch is on Friday 23rd February, Late Wayne Campbell is on Tuesday 12th March at 11:00am and that of the Late Simone Gomez will take place on 13th March at 1:30pm, here in St. Anselm.

    We need more people to read in church, so if you are interested please sign up on the sheet at the entrance or speak to Susan.

    We are encouraging those who would like to be volunteers of the Boys’ Brigade to please speak to Fr. Josiah. Ladies and gentlemen are welcome.

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 11th February

    Ash Wednesday: Lent Begins

    Lent is about to start all too soon and will begin with Ash Wednesday. We will collect all the palms blessed and distributed on Palm Sunday last year. Fr. Matthew and I will collect all the palms and make ashes out of them for Ash Wednesday, which occurs this 14th of February. Ash Wednesday marks the beginning of our Lenten period, leading to Easter or Day of Resurrection. Lent is a period where we exhibit repentance and show signs of remorse. 

    The essential things that help us experience Lent’s holy nature and not like any other period are fasting, prayer, giving, and penance. During Lent, our focus must always be on God; therefore, whatever we do must be jeered towards things that will enhance our relationship with God. Lent is a period where we seek the face of God and, most importantly, his mercies. Pope Francis once said, “God never tires of forgiving us: we are the ones who tire of seeking his mercy”. We must always know that humans are frail; we always make mistakes, which is when we seek God’s mercy through penance.

    During Ash Wednesday, the imposition of the ashes on our forehead reminds us of what God said to Adam in Genesis 3:19b: “… for out of it you were taken; for you are dust,” and to dust you shall return.” This is a time of grief; we must not be happy with our misdoings but grieve over them and get the opportunity to reflect on our errors, pray, and repent from them.

    It is our prayer that we make this lent a very blissful one, humble ourselves and seek the face of God. 

    Fr. Josiah

    Other News

    We are encouraging all those who would like to read in church to please sign up on the sheet at the entrance or speak to Susan.

    We are encouraging those who would like to be volunteers of the Boys’ Brigade to please speak to Fr. Josiah. Ladies and gentlemen are welcome.

    We will be making the Ash for Ash Wednesday  immediately after Mass so we will collect the palms after Mass today. 

    We are very low on food at the foodbank, all are welcome to donate.

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 4th February

    God is God

    Last Wednesday at the food bank, after the volunteers and I helped to give some food out to families and individuals who came around, we sat at our usual place (The café area at the back of the church) waiting for those who came in while having tea and coffee. Although we were low on food, after some appeals, more people donated to make the day for the families and those who came to the food bank. Many exciting topics arise every time we sit down for a hot drink. This time, we had about five volunteers. 

    One of the volunteers asked a question I cannot remember the number of times I have been invited, “Why did you become a priest?” my first statement was “Do you have the time?”. After giving some reasons, Lou asked a very probing question: Isaiah 55:8-9 was the answer: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”. For Lou, it is difficult to understand why God sometimes hides himself so wondrously, as though he does not see when things go wrong. 

    It may be that a friend, sibling, mum, dad, or even you are going through some struggles, heartbreaks, or challenges that are shaking your faith considerably. Is the constant streaming of alarming news about acts of evil going on all over the world making you afraid and begging to ask, “Where is our God in whom we trust?”. We must always know that God is God, and he knows best, and we must also understand that “…for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28).

    Other News

    St. Anselm will be launching Boys’ Brigade, if you would like to know more or volunteer, please speak to Fr. Josiah, ladies and gentlemen can volunteer.

    We are all reminded to bring back the palm crosses we received on Palm Sunday last year to make the ash for Ash Wednesday.

    We are very low on food at the foodbank, all are welcome to donate.

    The Torfaen Male Voice Choir will be with us for another concert on the 9th March. This is a great fundraiser for us – we raised over £500 the last two times they came. Save the date, tickets available soon. Tell everyone!

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 28th January

    Alone With God

    In our seminary years, one of the spiritual exercises we were constantly encouraged to do was a series of silent prayers and recollections. This was a discipline that all seminarians must master to build the habit of being still before the Lord, and we had the opportunity to do this at least once every week. In the initial stages, we had difficulty being still and being alone with God, but today, we appreciate how being still before God has helped and continues to shape our Christian and priestly life.

    Mother Theresa tells us the importance and benefits of being alone with God, and she puts it this way, “We need silence to be alone with God, to speak to him, to listen to him, to ponder his words deep in our hearts. We must be alone with God in silence to be renewed and transformed. Silence gives us a new outlook on life. In it, we are filled with the energy of God himself that makes us do all things with joy.” 

    Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ had to withdraw and spend time alone, praying or meditating. In Matthew 6:6, he said that when we pray, we must go into our rooms, shut the door, and pray in secret and that our Father who sees in secret will reward us. Jesus did the same: “But he would withdraw to desolate places and pray.” (Luke 5:16)

    Alone with God is spending time with God, having a chat, telling him your fears, joys, and challenges, thanking him, asking him what he expects from you, etc., without interruptions from the outside world. To know God and know him better, we must spend uninterrupted time with him, reading His Word, speaking, and listening.

    Other News

    Our gas & electric bill for December and January was over £2500. If you could make an additional one-off donation towards these costs we really need it. We have struggled to pay our bills this quarter, please do dig deep.

    Please consider moving your donations to the Parish Giving Scheme. It automatically claims the Gift Aid for us adding an additional 25% to any money you give. You can set it up by calling 0333 002 1271 and quoting our parish reference 230 623 503. Other ways to donate can be found at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

    Please check if you have a Christmas Card on the table at the back of church, because the table will be moved after Mass.

    If we cannot cover our bills we could be in very serious trouble.

    The Torfaen Male Voice Choir will be with us for another concert on the 9th March. This is a great fundraiser for us – we raised over £500 the last two times they came. Save the date, tickets available soon. Tell everyone!

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 21st January

    Ashamed of The Gospel?

    During a short meditation on Romans 1:16, which says, “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek”. Several thoughts came to mind regarding our willingness as Christians to share the word of God with people. Are we naturally shy or ashamed of the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ? Why is it that we are never shy when sharing, for example, our holiday experiences, exciting achievements, an interesting movie we watched in the theatre, a new recipe we prepared, a football match we watched, etc., with friends and family and yet when it comes to proclaiming the Good News to people, we instantly become uncomfortable?

    Charles Darwin explained shame through its physical expression as ‘casting the eyes downward, lowering the head, blushing and a slack posture’. Do these expressions apply when preaching the salvific message to friends and family? We should see the proclamation or sharing the Good News with people as a privilege and an opportunity to move angels to celebrate in heaven because a soul has been won for Jesus. We must, therefore, feel proud, bold, and joyful whenever we get the opportunity to talk about Jesus to people. Instead, we should be ashamed when we do things that do not glorify God and not when we proclaim the Good News.

    Christians are to announce the Gospel unashamedly because it brings hope, comfort, love, peace, joy, healing, deliverance, and eternal life to those who believe. “How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news…” (Isaiah 52:7)

    Other News

    We have PCC meeting after Mass today in the Church Hall.

    Thursday Fun and Fellowship every Thursday in the Church Hall from 7pm to 8:30pm. 

    If you are interested in serving on the Altar, please speak to Fr. Josiah or Susan

    We would like to improve the participation of children and young people in church activities so If you’ve got ideas on what we can do to encourage children to be fuller members of our family, please be in touch with Fr. Josiah or Susan Chick. 

    Next Sunday, we will have a visitor from the Boys’ Brigade, National to do a short presentation about Boys’ Brigade.

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 14th January

    New Beginning

    “Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” (Isaiah 43:18-19) 

    We must be very grateful to God for bringing us into the New Year, and we must continue to pray for His continuous protection and guidance in this fresh year. It is not everything we were happy with in the previous year, but it is worth noting that we had some happy moments. God is saying in Isaiah 43:18-19 above that we should not dwell on the past because he is doing a new thing and that the new thing cannot be understood because He is going to make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. God is telling us that regardless of the mistakes we may have made last year, He will not look at those because they are past; instead, he will do something new in our lives. Every missing piece of the jigsaw will be replaced and fixed in its proper place. 

    God has begun something new in everybody and will see it to its perfect end. It is OK to be discouraged at certain times, but we must always Know that He is with us, and all we need to do is believe in him and stay focused. Philippians 1:6 says, “And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”God is the creator; everything he does is for our good, and everything we can do or achieve is through His Spirit. So, let us allow him to make things new in our lives this year.

    Other News

    Thursday Fun and Fellowship is back after the Christmas break and we will be meeting on Thursday 18th January in the Church Hall from 7pm to 8:30pm.

    If you would like to read at Church on Sunday Mornings please be in touch with Susan Chick. We’ve loved hearing from new people and hearing new languages. There is a rota on the display board at the back of church to sign up. 

    We would like to improve the participation of children and young people in church activities so If you’ve got ideas on what we can do to encourage children to be fuller members of our family, please be in touch with Fr. Josiah or Susan Chick. 

    Please support the church generously through your giving at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving

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  • News for 19th November

    Times And Seasons

    When you spend years away from friends and you get the opportunity to meet them again you will see some changes in them, and they will also see same in you. We change as time goes on and there is nothing anyone can do about it. 

    Change is part of our existence in this world, and it can either be positive or negative and the cosmos is also not left out, the world is changing day by day. Next week will be the end of the liturgical year and Advent will begin. 

    There are times and seasons, and it is not devoid of change. 

    I used to be a very young boy but now I am a growing man, and my life is changing all the time. We must not fear the times and seasons but rather know that it is God who has ordained this, therefore we must allow his will in our lives and make the most out of the opportunities he continues to give us to help in the growth and development of one another because time is not on our side. 

    Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” It is important to note that this is not really about the seasons we have in our world but rather about spiritual seasons with our relationship with God and his pre-determined plan fashioned for every individual or group of individuals under the sun. 

    Dear people of God, there is nothing that will stay the same apart from God so as Christians we must know that it is important to learn to adjust to God’s design and plan concerning our lives and make the most out of it.

    Fr. Josiah

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    Other News

    Christmas concert with The Yiewsley and West Drayton Band is on Friday 1st December at 8pm, in St. Anselm. Ticket costs £5 and is available on the website.   

    Next week is Sunday School and we are planning to present a surprise package in December so we will need all the children next Sunday at 11:30am.

    Thursday Fun & Fellowship this Thursday! Come along and play some games and get to know new people. 

    The funeral of Norma Pigott will take place here at St. Anselm on Wednesday 29th November at 11am.

    Please sign up for Parish Giving (which is a wonderful way to support St. Anselm and helps us claim more money from the government) Go to stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving or call the Parish Giving Team directly on 0333 002 1271 quoting our parish number, which is: 230 623 503.

  • News for 15th October

    You are not alone.

    Many years back, I had a conversation with a friend who told me a story of a period in his life where he felt very lonely and how it affected every aspect of his life to the point where he thought no one was interested in his life on earth. 

    He had family and friends and was also gainfully employed, yet he felt lonely. It is important to note that the feeling of loneliness is so complex that it can significantly affect people’s overall physical and spiritual well-being. 

    We all get this feeling some of the time, and for others, it is a feeling that is unending. Apart from its spiritual effects, studies show that it can lead to high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, depression, and overall stability in people who go through this.

    This friend made it clear to me that he does not think God is in control of his life and said he does not believe even He exists and that if he did, why does he always feel alone? 

    Loneliness is more dangerous than you could imagine, but Isaiah 41:10 says, 

    “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” 

    One thing we must not relegate to the background is that God loves us, and he will never leave us. He wants us to trust and walk with him because those who have God are never alone, have a lively social life, and never forget to pray and play hard.

    Fr. Josiah

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    Other News

    PCC Meeting NEXT SUNDAY 11:30am – 1pm to plan our Advent and Christmas seasons.

    There is Sunday School THIS WEEK at 11:30am-12:30pm. Please invite and encourage your children to come.

    Thursday Fun & Fellowship is back on Thursday and Fr. Josiah has some great ideas about things to try over the colder and darker months. Come along if you’re feeling lonely, come along if you enjoy great company – good coffee, conversation and camaraderie. 

    The Christmas Tree and Town Lights turn on will once again take place at St. Anselm, this year on the 16th November at 4pm with a joint primary schools choir concert and the switch on at 4:30pm. The mayor will be with us once again.

    We’re just heading into the winter period and our heating and electricity bills will almost treble as we attempt to keep the church warm for Sundays and events. It would be wonderful if you could consider giving a little more over the winter period to help us cover the bills. 

    Please sign up for Parish Giving (which is a wonderful way to support St. Anselm and helps us claim more money from the government) Go to stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving or call the Parish Giving Team directly on 0333 002 1271 quoting our parish number, which is: 230 623 503.