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  • News for Christmas Day

    The Arrival.

    A very merry Christmas.

    It has been a momentous year in the life of St. Anselm. We have had high points and low points, there have been times when we’ve wondered if things were going to work out and there have been times we’ve shared happiness and joy at the new things happening.

    We welcomed our new mission priest and his family, we’ve welcomed new people who have become part of our loving family and we’ve grown in both numbers and depth of love in Jesus. 

    We have much to be grateful for and even more to be excited about. 

    Christmas is a time to be excited, it is a time to put aside the cynicism and doubt we collect as we grow older and to re-capture the simple joy and expectation of children on Christmas Eve. 

    Be happy. Be joyful. Be expectant of how things will improve in your life in the coming year. 

    Most of all be joyful at the love of Jesus working in your life. When cynicism and doubt threaten to raise their ugly heads picture the Holy Family in the stable, surrounded by animals and embraced in their love for one another. 

    Be peaceful, be full of love.

    Fr. Matthew

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    All of us here at St. Anselm wish you a very happy and a very merry Christmas with all our best wishes and prayers for a wonderful new year. 

    It’s a very quiet week in church, but please do use the calendar to pray at home. 

    Thank you to everyone who has worked so hard to make the church beautiful and welcoming over Christmas. People have been welcomed to a warm, clean and loving space, and that is down to a great deal of hard work – thank you. 

    Don’t forget we’re running Alpha from the 19th January. If you don’t know what Alpha is or want to sign up, head to the website at stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/alpha It’s a place to ask big questions about life, faith and love. We start each session with a hot meal and good chat.

  • News for 18th December

    The Arrival.

    Conclusion.

    For the past three weeks we have been on a journey of preparation which has led us into what Advent is about and what to expect during advent, the importance of scripture in our Christian journey by availing ourselves to the hearing, reading, marking and inwardly digesting the scriptures. We completed last week by focusing on knowing Jesus, loving Him and serving Him and indeed our own St. Richard of Chichester (1197-1253) made it simple for us with his prayer “…may I know you more clearly, love you more dearly and follow you more nearly, day by day”.

    This week we conclude by meditating on one of the most popular biblical quotes “For this is how God loved the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16). 

    God first showed us love by giving us His only begotten Son, he first showed us love by first extending a hand of unconditional love. In showing His love He first acted, and it is our turn to respond to this act of love. God expressed this love so that we will not perish but be guaranteed eternal life.

    His son is going to be with us very soon and His coming is all about love, making things right and bringing us salvation. How do we express love to those around us? Are we ready and willing to give of our best to make others have some comfort? Are we ready to do something to help the less privileged in our community going through hard times in the cold? How are we expressing the love that God has shown us to those we come across? Let us meditate on this and ask God to speak to us to show love to the suffering.

    Fr. Josiah.

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    Please make a special effort to come to our Advent & Christmas Carol service on Sunday evening at 6pm. You’ll get to see (and use) our new coffee bike which Fr. Matthew is picking up and will be arriving with at the end of the 10am Mass – be there to witness him trying to drive it into church!

    Advent & Christmas Dates:

    • Advent Course, Thursdays after mass (10:30am)
      and online via zoom (7:30pm) – 22/12
    • 18th December – Advent & Christmas Carols, 6pm 
    • 24th December – Crib & Carols Service, 3pm
    • 24th December – Midnight Mass, 11:30pm
    • 25th December – Christmas Day Mass, 10am
  • News for 11th December

    The Arrival.

    Part 3.

    Know Him, Love Him and Serve Him

    St. Richard of Chichester (1197-1253) said in a prayer “…May I know you more clearly, love you more dearly and follow you more nearly, day by day”. 

    We are anxiously waiting for the coming of our saviour Jesus Christ and one of the three things that Jesus expect from us is to Know him, love him and be ready to serve him. When we are expecting a guest in our homes, we try to know the person in order to prepare appropriately for his coming. We purpose in our hearts to show him love and to serve him.

    We can know Jesus through the scriptures by availing ourselves to teachings, prayer and the directions of the Holy Spirit. Through testimonies of the apostles, saints and believers who lived exceptionally good lives and how Jesus used them in the assembly. 

    1 John 4:19 says “We love because he first loved us” 

    Jesus has given us the example of love “greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friend” (John 15:13). 

    In loving Jesus, he expects us to love one another with an unconditional love because he first exhibited that love by laying down His life for us. It is therefore our calling to love our friends as ourselves. 

    We are also called to serve Jesus Christ by being each other’s keeper, being there for people especially in the time of their need. Jesus said in Matthew 20:28 “Just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve…”. 

    Fr. Josiah

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    Thank you to everyone who turned out to support the Ecumenical Carols at the Golden Disk this week. Over 200 leaflets were giving out with an invitation to join us this Advent & Christmas.

    Don’t miss 9 Lessons & Carols next week – a beautiful service of scripture and music.

    We welcome Ally (or organist) back this week – so bring your big singing voices!

    Advent & Christmas Dates:

    • Advent Course, Thursdays after mass (10:30am)
      and online via zoom (7:30pm) – 15/12, 22/12
    • 18th December – 9 Lessons and Carols, 6pm 
    • 24th December – Crib & Carols Service, 3pm
    • 24th December – Midnight Mass, 11:30pm
    • 25th December – Christmas Day Mass, 10am
  • News for December 4th

    The Arrival.

    Part 2.

    During Advent it is always important to take note of our approach to scripture in our Christian journey. 

    II Timothy 3:16 – 17 “All scripture is given by the inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness: that the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.” 

    So, we must allow scripture to inform us in all that do although sometimes it becomes difficult to defend our faith with the scripture due to the dynamics of our societies today, we must not give up but find other innovative ways to make the word of God known to the world.

    The Collect for 2nd Sunday in Advent from the Book of Common Prayer (BCP) shows it is The Lord who caused holy Scripture to be written for our learning and that we should hear them, read, mark, learn and inwardly digest them

    This Collect admonishes us to make time for the word of God and be ready to always hear them, spend some time in our personal devotions to read and make it a point to take note by marking them spiritually in our hearts. It goes on to tell us to avail ourselves for scripture learning so that it will move us to inwardly digest and or discern the will of God in our lives, be able to know God better to prepare well for His coming and be able to meet Him with confidence. Amen.

    Fr. Josiah

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    Ecumenical Carols – join with Christians from across Hayes on Monday evening at 7pm at the Golden Disk in Hayes Town to sign carols and hand out flyers with details of all our Christmas services on. A great act of mission, faith and invitation – not to mention a great opportunity to prepare for Christmas. 

    Advent & Christmas Dates:

    • Advent Course, Thursdays after mass (10:30am)
      and online via zoom (7:30pm) – 8/12, 15/12, 22/12
    • 5th December – Ecumenical Carols at the Golden Disk, 7pm
    • 18th December – 9 Lessons and Carols, 6pm 
    • 24th December – Crib & Carols Service, 3pm
    • 24th December – Midnight Mass, 11:30pm
    • 25th December – Christmas Day Mass, 10am

    You can set up regular giving by direct debit with Parish Giving by calling 0333 002 1271 and quoting our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 (or online via stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving)

  • News for 27th November

    The Arrival, Part 1.

    Advent is a very important season in the Christian calendar because it is the beginning of the liturgical year. It is from Latin ‘Adventus’ which is translated as ‘coming’ or ‘arrival’ in Greek it is ‘Parousia’ and is used in the New Testament as ‘the second coming’. This is a season to prepare for the Nativity of Christ at Christmas. The liturgical Colour for this season is purple or violet. Advent is a four-week period in the church’s calendar, gives us four Sundays in Advent, and Christmas comes after Advent.

    What To Expect During Advent

    Advent Wreath/Advent Crown

    This is a Christian tradition, and the wreath is made with assorted green leaves which signifies continuous life. The laurel signifies victory over persecution and suffering; pine, holly, and yew, immortality; and cedar, strength and healing. The prickly leaves also signify and reminds us of the crown of thorns. The circle of the wreath symbolizes the eternity of God, the immortality of the soul, and the everlasting life found in Jesus Christ. Pinecones, nuts or seed pods used to decorate the wreath also symbolizes life and resurrection.

    The Four candles represent the four weeks of Advent. The tradition is that each week represents 1,000 years making 4,000 years from Adam and Eve until the birth of our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Out of the four candles, three are purple and one is rose, and the purple candles symbolizes prayer, penance, and preparatory sacrifices, goods and work done at this time. The rose candle is lit on the third Sunday called Gaudete Sunday and, on this Sunday, the liturgical colour is rose. This third Sunday is the Sunday of rejoicing because we have reached the mid-point of Advent. The light signifies Christ who is our light. In this modern era, a white candle is placed in the middle of the wreath which signifies Christ, and it is lit on Christmas eve.

    (from https://www.catholiceducation.org/en/culture/catholic-contributions/the-history-of-the-advent-wreath.html)

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    There will be a PCC meeting this Sunday (27th) immediately after mass. All are invited. It will be quite a long meeting so lunch will be provided and we may even go as far as turning the heating on! The accounts for 2021 will be presented.  

    Advent & Christmas Dates:

    • Advent Course, Thursdays after mass (10:30am)
      and online via zoom (7:30pm)
      1/12, 8/12, 15/12, 22/12
    • 5th December – Ecumenical Carols at the Golden Disk, 7pm
    • 18th December – 9 Lessons and Carols, 6pm 
    • 24th December – Crib & Carols Service, 3pm
    • 24th December – Midnight Mass, 11:30pm
    • 25th December – Christmas Day Mass, 10am

    You can set up regular giving by direct debit with Parish Giving by calling 0333 002 1271 and quoting our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 (or online via stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving)

  • News for 20th November

    Exciting times ahead.

    This week we’ve received two pieces of extraordinary news.

    As many of you know St. Anselm is ‘suspended’ by the Diocese of London. This essentially means that it’s at risk of ‘pastoral reorganisation’ – that reorganisation can include closure or being combined with another parish or having other things changed. 

    We were originally suspended in 2019, shortly after the Resolutions were passed, by the then Bishop of Willesden +Pete Broadbent. 

    Parishes that are suspended do not have a ‘vicar’ but rather a ‘priest in charge’ who can be removed by the bishop very easily.

    This is almost never good news for the parish involved!

    However, when I was licensed as priest in charge in 2020 it was clear that if we could demonstrate our ability to stand our own feet and to bring new people to Christ a new dawn may follow – and that has proved true.

    Next year the parish will be ‘unsuspended’ and – if the PCC and you would like to keep me – I’ll be installed as your vicar proper. 

    The Bishops of Willesden and Fulham have expressed their confidence in our brining new people to Jesus, in growing our congregation, and in becoming financially stable. 

    In addition to this wonderful news they have also made a one off grant to us of £50,000 to help us on that journey! 

    I don’t think they could have made a clearer declaration of their confidence in us here at St. Anselm.

    This is a testament to all your hard work and prayer over the last two years and I have been humbled and honoured to be your priest in charge and look forward to being your vicar!

    Fr. Matthew

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    There will be a PCC meeting next Sunday (27th) immediately after mass. All are invited. It will be quite a long meeting so lunch will be provided and we may even go as far as turning the heating on! The accounts for 2021 will be presented.  

    You can set up regular giving by direct debit with Parish Giving by calling 0333 002 1271 and quoting our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 (or online via stanselm.matthewcashmore.com/giving)

    Advent & Christmas Dates:

    • Advent Course, Thursdays after mass (10:30am)
      and online via zoom (7:30pm)
      1/12, 8/12, 15/12, 22/12
    • 5th December – Ecumenical Carols at the Golden Disk, 7pm
    • 18th December – 9 Lessons and Carols, 6pm 
    • 24th December – Crib & Carols Service, 3pm
    • 24th December – Midnight Mass, 11:30pm
    • 25th December – Christmas Day Mass, 10am
  • News for 13th November

    War, what is it good for?

    War is just about the worst thing that we humans practice on each other. The moment we declare war on each other the rules of decent human love go out the window. 

    We dress this up by saying there are rules of war, that you can do this – but you can’t do that. You can arrest a soldier but you mustn’t mistreat him.

    It’s of little comfort when the aim appears to be to kill as many men, women and children as you can of the ‘enemy’. 

    The reality is of course that we have only one enemy in this life and he lives somewhere rather warmer than earth.

    It is that fallen creature that drives us towards hatred and the normalising of killing each other, of aiming missiles and guns at each other.

    There is only one enemy that helps us somehow make war okay – because we have ‘rules’. 

    War is never okay. It is never okay because it requires us to cease to love our neighbour as ourselves – as Jesus loved us and as He continues to love us.

    War starts in the small acts of aggressions we show each other every day. War starts in the nastiness of our own hearts when they are not full of the love that Jesus gives us.

    Pray that your own heart is shed of any hatred and aggression, that it is instead filled with Jesus’ Love. Pray that the hearts of others are filled with that love. Pray that one day we will be able to say that War is a thing of the past. 

    Fr. Matthew

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    The Hayes Town Christmas Lights will be turned on from St. Anselm at 4pm on Thursday. The massed choirs of the local schools will be turning out and it would be great if we could have a mulled wine & mince pie stall set up to help raise funds for the church. We’re expecting hundreds of people! Please speak to Fr. Matthew 0r Fr. Josiah if you can lend a hand.

    Did you know you can support the parish by giving via Direct Debit? It’s super easy to set up and you can control it over the phone or via the website. It has a HUGE upside for the church as it means we automatically collect the Gift Aid on it (at no cost or fuss to you, the money comes direct from the Government). There are currently only 4 of us set up for Parish Giving but that brought in over £600 in additional Gift Aid last year, imagine if we were all doing this!

    You can set it up by calling 0333 002 1271 and giving them our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 

    Envelopes are still also available – please do speak to David if you don’t have a giving envelope and would like to help fund our mission.

  • News for 7th November

    Seeing the cross in everything. 

    On holiday last week Catherine, Edmund and I visited the Fleet Air Arm museum down in Yeovil. It’s an amazing place full of amazing planes, helicopters and other fascinating navy flying hardware.

    Edmund and I were in our element… Catherine said she was happy but I’m sure her mind was on other matters!

    As we walked around I spotted a yellow cross on the side of ‘Humphrey’ – a veteran Wessex Helicopter from the Falklands war.

    As we stood and listened to the guide tell the amazing story of this machine and the heroes who flew her I was fixated on the cross on the side. 

    Why on earth was the cross pained on this machine of war? What had happened that resulted in this symbol of Christian Hope being painted on the side?

    The talk didn’t help and so I prepared myself to ask the guide when I noticed it everywhere – it was on all the helicopters! What on earth was going on….!?

    Then I noticed the small black text underneath ‘picket here’ – it wasn’t a cross… it was an anchor! It is painted on the side of helicopters to show where they should be anchored to the deck in high winds and rough seas! 

    It wasn’t the cross after all. 

    But then I thought, actually, I can’t think of a better symbol in a time of high winds, of rough seas in our lives to turn to – the cross as an anchor point. 

    When things are rough, tough and very difficult we can turn to the cross and find the anchor point we need to stay safe and see our way through the storm.

    Fr. Matthew

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    The PCC meeting planned for this Sunday is postponed until our accounts are finalised. 

    Did you know you can support the parish by giving via Direct Debit? It’s super easy to set up and you can control it over the phone or via the website. It has a HUGE upside for the church as it means we automatically collect the Gift Aid on it (at no cost or fuss to you, the money comes direct from the Government). There are currently only 4 of us set up for Parish Giving but that brought in over £600 in additional Gift Aid last year, imagine if we were all doing this!

    You can set it up by calling 0333 002 1271 and giving them our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 

    Envelopes are still also available – please do speak to David if you don’t have a giving envelope and would like to help fund our mission.

  • News for 30th October

    Talking about Jesus, Part 2. 

    In the second part of a series on how to grow the church – and therefore the Kingdom of God here on Earth (inspired by Bishop Robert Barron in the USA) we pick up ideas three and four.

    3 – Invite people to ask questions. 

    Many people, even those who say they don’t like anything to do with church, are actually deeply interested in religion. 

    Ask why they no longer come to Mass or why they’ve never even come to church to find out more. You might be surprised how ready they are to tell you.

    But be ready to answer their questions with an open heart and honesty. Don’t be defensive, be genuinely happy to feed their hunger to know more.

    4 – Be kind. This seems like such a simple thing to say but we so often forget it. 

    Be kind. Both online and in real life, be kind. No one will be interested in hearing about the faith of an obviously bitter and unhappy person.

    So there it is – invite others to Mass, pray for the Church, welcome questions (and have answers!), and be kind. These four steps can change lives. 

    Will you join me in this new effort? Will you pray for its success?

    Fr. Matthew

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    Mass for All Souls will take place at 6pm on Wednesday 2nd November. If you would like your loved one to be remembered at the mass please add the name to the list at the back of church or email Fr. Matthew or Fr. Josiah. 

    Did you know you can support the parish by giving via Direct Debit? It’s super easy to set up and you can control it over the phone or via the website. It has a HUGE upside for the church as it means we automatically collect the Gift Aid on it (at no cost or fuss to you, the money comes direct from the Government). There are currently only 4 of us set up for Parish Giving but that brought in over £600 in additional Gift Aid last year, imagine if we were all doing this!

    You can set it up by calling 0333 002 1271 and giving them our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 

    Envelopes are still also available – please do speak to David if you don’t have a giving envelope and would like to help fund our mission.

  • News for October 23rd

    Talking about Jesus. How to start. 

    Last week I encouraged you to talk to a friend about Jesus and to invite them to church. 

    I explained that evangelism is a good and wonderful thing and that all of us have a role to play in it. 

    It’s easy enough to say but what does it mean in practice?

    I’ve been thinking over how best to explore this and Bishop Robert Baron came to my rescue on Twitter!

    In his diocese in the USA he has set out four ways in which we can all play a part in growing our church – and in doing so growing the Kingdom here on earth.

    I’m going to explore two this week and two next week. 

    1 – Every family who comes to mass should invite another family. Imagine how many more people will come to know how amazing a Christian life can be through a simple invitation. 

    Bishop Philip North has a great way to do this, he suggests we say to people,

    “I’m going to church on Sunday, it’s great – you should come. What time shall I pick you up?!”

    2 – Pray for the return of the lost sheep. 

    There are many people who used to come to church but who have somehow lost their way. 

    It could be that something happened, that somebody upset them, that things just changed in their life and so they no longer come. 

    You know who these people are – so invite them back to church. Tell them about the amazing things we’re doing. Christmas is an ideal time to do this.

    More next week!

    Fr. Matthew

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    Did you know you can support the parish by giving via Direct Debit? It’s super easy to set up and you can control it over the phone or via the website. It has a HUGE upside for the church as it means we automatically collect the Gift Aid on it (at no cost or fuss to you, the money comes direct from the Government). There are currently only 4 of us set up for Parish Giving but that brought in over £600 in additional Gift Aid last year, imagine if we were all doing this!

    You can set it up by calling 0333 002 1271 and giving them our Parish Giving Code – 230 623 503 

    Envelopes are still also available – please do speak to David if you don’t have a giving envelope and would like to help fund our mission.