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  • News for 7th March

    Worn out.

    How much longer must we wait? 

    This week we had the wonderful reading from Genesis giving us the first few chapters of the story of Joseph. (Genesis 37). It’s worth going back when you have a moment this week and reading the whole story (Genesis 37-46).

    It is a story where you can easily imagine Joseph asking the question ‘how much more of this can I take?’. 

    First he was sold into slavery by jealous brothers, then he was put in prison for a crime he did not commit – but each time Joseph managed to turn the bad into good. 

    He took the evil that others had done to him and made it good.

    When he was sold into slavery he ultimately become the chief servant in the house of Potiphar. 

    When he was accused by Potiphar’s wife of taking advantage of her (although the situation was really the other way around) he found himself in prison where he was put in charge of the other prisoners because ‘the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love’. 

    Finally he interprets the dreams of two supposed enemies of the Pharaoh and those interpretations turn out to be true. 

    He is called to serve the Pharaoh and again he does’t just serve but becomes second only to the Pharaoh himself. 

    In each of these situations it would have been easy for Joseph to give up, to let his faith fly away, to give into dejection and despair. 

    But his resilience and steadfast love of God got him through some very very difficult times – and that steadfast love and that same resilience that is a product of that love can get us through this hard time.

    All will be well. 

    Fr. Matthew

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    We continue to clean the church each Saturday at 11am – with lots of people it doesn’t take long and the really big clean has now happened – we just need to keep on top of the dust.

    The building work is continuing really well with new walls now up for the kitchen and toilet, the toilet will be available upon special request on Sunday.

    Children will be back serving at the altar on Mothering Sunday – March 14th! Please make a special effort to come and encourage them.

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of 28th February

    Do the small things.

    What’s your example? 

    We’re told that St. David’s final words were ‘Be joyful, keep the faith, and do the little things that you have heard and seen me do’.

    These words are actually taken from his final sermon on the Sunday before he died – he was a prodigious preacher and founded monastic settlements over Wales, the South West of England and even Brittany. 

    In Wales we still say, ‘Gwnewch y pethau bychain mewn bywyd’ – which means ‘Do the little things’. 

    This is good way to approach lent. If you try to do too much too quickly you will struggle. Sometimes the struggle is the point – that arduous and difficult path that Jesus trod before us and in which we attempt to join. 

    But sometimes, it’s the journey that’s important and perhaps this lent that’s more important than it has been for a long time. 

    If you’ve not yet found a rhythm for lent try to do the small things. Start simply with Prayer. Are you thanking God as you get up? As you go to bed?

    Have you looked at those small bad habits and tried to knock them on the head? Perhaps it’s as simple as turning off your phone after 7pm.  

    Be joyful, keep the faith. 

    Fr. Matthew

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    Mass for St. David will be at 5pm after Evening Prayer.

    There will be cleaning in church again this Saturday at 11am – thank you to everyone who helped last week. 

    There will be a PCC meeting on March 7th immediately after mass – it will be a long one, please bring your own lunch. 

    Children will be back serving at the altar on Mothering Sunday – March 14th!

    Mass for St. David will be at 5pm after Evening Prayer.

    There will be cleaning in church again this Saturday at 11am – thank you to everyone who helped last week. 

    There will be a PCC meeting on March 7th immediately after mass – it will be a long one, please bring your own lunch. 

    Children will be back serving at the altar on Mothering Sunday – March 14th!

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of 21st February

    Stations of the Cross.

    A mini pilgrimage. 

    In Lent we will be following the Stations of the Cross on Tuesday evenings after Evening Prayer. But why?

    The 14 stations allow us to spend time with Jesus Christ in His last day on earth. We start with His condemnation and end as He is laid in his tomb. 

    Many churches have beautiful images, icons or even life size statues of each of these moments in His last day (pictured are the life size bronze Stations at Lourdes). Each gives us a moment to pause, to pray, to reflect and to try to draw closer to Jesus and our understanding of His suffering that day.

    We are fortunate to have beautiful depictions of each of these moments at St. Anselm and alongside a weekly email reflection from Fr. Philip Barnes (also available as a booklet by request) we will using the Stations as our primary method of devotion and learning during this Lent. 

    They are especially helpful to those who are new to faith and for those who wish to revisit the founding principles of what it means to live your life in the name of Jesus Christ. 

    Do try to come at least once during Lent on a Tuesday evening and walk this simple and moving path – take a mini pilgrimage in the steps of Jesus.

    Fr. Matthew

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    Mass on Wednesday will be in the evening as Fr. Matthew has a meeting in central London.

    The box to collect the stamps for the RNIB has arrived in church! Please bring them in (leaving 1cm space around the edge) for Susan to collect.

    There will be cleaning in church again this Saturday – at the slightly later time of 11am. Thank you to everyone who helped this week. 

    There will be a PCC meeting on March 7th immediately after mass – it will be a long one, please bring your own lunch. 

    Children will be back serving at the altar on Mothering Sunday – March 14th!

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for Sunday 14th February

    A good Lent.

    Why do we deprive ourselves?

    Over the last few years it has become quite popular to take something up for Lent, rather than giving something up.

    You can see the attraction. Giving something up makes us uncomfortable – why would you deprive yourself of small treats – especially at the moment?

    The Orthodox church seem to understand this better than we do. Lent gets progressively difficult over the coming weeks. 

    Instead of giving up one small thing the Orthodox will start with giving up one thing, then the following week add another, then another and then another until in the final week of Lent as we enter Holy Week the fasting is very real and very hard.

    Why? It’s done because it helps us understand the harsh treatment of Jesus Christ. It didn’t arrive in one go, but over time.

    We walk with Jesus as he carries His cross – this is why we undertake the Stations of the Cross during Lent (we’ll be saying them each Tuesday after Mass during Lent). 

    Our journey is about understanding and sharing His pain. Our lives are not easy, but Jesus understands our pain and hardship – he has lived them Himself – and it’s during Lent we come closest to understanding His – this is why we fast.

    The other thing the Orthodox do better than us is feast at the end of a fast! The joy and celebration of Easter Sunday is without compare throughout the rest of Christendom!

    Who knows, by Easter Sunday we may be able to share a drink after Mass. We may feel more confident in coming to church, we may feel more connected to Jesus – and that is worth a Great Feast! 

    However we end up sharing the Feast of Easter, it will be all the sweeter if we have fully engaged with the fast of Lent.

    Fr. Matthew

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    There are significant changes to the weekly services this week, please do look at them carefully.

    There will be two masses on Ash Wednesday, do come along to either as there will be ashing at both.

    Confessions will be heard on Tuesday evening after Evening Prayer by appointment – please contact Fr. Matthew

    A lent course will be delivered digitally via email over the coming weeks – do make sure you are ‘signed up’ for emails via our website or forms at the back of church. 

    Due to the large amount of dust being caused by the building work we are cleaning the church (dusting and floors) on Saturday mornings at 10am – please do let Fr. Matthew or Cynthia know if you can help.

    The Archdeacons Visitation and our planned Vision Day on the 23rd February has been postponed until after Easter. 

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of 7th February

    Our Lady of Lourdes.

    Healing, comfort and love.

    On Thursday we offer a special memorial of Our Lady of Lourdes. 

    In 1858 the immaculate Virgin Mary appeared to Bernadette Soubirous in Lourdes, France. 

    Mary appeared to this poor, 14 year-old girl to call us to change our lives for the better. To pray the rosary and to offer ourselves in service of the poor and the sick.

    A couple of years ago I had the chance to go to Lourdes on pilgrimage. I must admit I wasn’t expecting very much. Lourdes has a reputation as the ‘Disney Land’ of the Roman Catholic church. 

    Lots of tawdry statues, lots of shops, lots of people pushing and shoving to be first in the line for this attraction or that display. Not really my thing.

    But I was surprised. Lourdes turned out to be a very special place indeed.

    Much like Walsingham, the appearance of the Blessed Virgin has left the place rather ‘thin’. You often find this in places where prayer is constantly offered. It somehow becomes easier to talk to God in these thin places, aided by the prayers and the appearance of our Blessed Mother. 

    It turned out to be a very special pilgrimage indeed. I discovered a peace and comfort that I had been missing. Perhaps in better days, we shall all go together as a parish.

    Fr. Matthew

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    Work will start in earnest on the church hall on Wednesday 10th. A temporary wooden wall is to be built to screen the vestry and the hall whilst work is underway. The works will take approximately 3 months to complete. 

    The Archdeacons Visitation and our planned Vision Day on the 23rd February has been postponed until after Easter. 

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of 31st January

    Candlemass.

    The Presentation of the Lord.

    Traditionally Candlemass is the point at which Christmas decorations are taken down in the home. Certainly the crib is not put away until February 2nd – the date of The Presentation of the Lord. 

    It is the 40th and final day of the Christmas & Epiphany season (even though we have already entered Ordinary Time). It’s a moment to look back at the joy of Christmas, the arrival of the Wise Men and the time of celebration that the new year brings. 

    But now, we face the year ahead. We – like Mary and Joseph – take our hopes and dreams for the coming year to God in prayer. 

    We gather in church and meet with our friends. We meet wise members of the congregation who guide us, who offer us their hard learnt lessons and if we’re lucky, bless us on our journey.

    It’s traditionally also a time when people bring their candles into church to be blessed. 

    We will be doing that this year on Tuesday evening at a special Candlemass Holy Communion and blessing service. 

    We will gather at 5pm for Evening Prayer and then a special Mass for the Presentation of the Lord followed by blessing of the candles. 

    All of this will be in candle light – it will be very special indeed. 

    Fr. Matthew

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    On Monday Fr. Matthew will be at St. Mary’s in Kenton to assist with the reception of the late Lady Margaret (as we called her!) The reception is at 4:30pm and Evening Prayer will be streamed from St. Mary’s immediately afterwards. Timing will need to be flexible. 
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    On Tuesday for the Presentation of the Lord there will be a traditional Candlemass at 5pm after Evening Prayer. The services will be held in candlelight and you can bring your own candles in to be blessed. Morning Prayer will be said privately. 

    An enormous thank-you to all who helped clear the Walsingham Chapel ahead of our building work starting.

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of 24th January

    The Word of God.

    In my head, on my lips & in my heart.

    This Sunday is set apart as the ‘Sunday of the Word of God’. We are encouraged to consider how scripture has impacted our lives and faith. How has the Word of God altered our day-to-day life? 

    Each Sunday, as we get to the Gospel Reading we set it apart as important. 

    We sing (in normal circumstances), we process the Gospel Book from the Altar into the throng of the congregation, we surround it with incense. Our senses are assaulted by sound, movement, smell. 

    This all happens to bring our attention to a vital part of our time together – hearing the Good News. 

    Jesus tells us to ‘repent and hear the Good News’. We often spend time on the former, but how much time do we spend on the Word of God?

    Do we read it each day at home? Do we pay much attention as it is read at mass or do we allow our minds to wander? 

    There is a trick in opening yourself to the Good News – especially at mass. 

    It’s built into our liturgy and I suspect we all do it without thinking. 

    It’s as we cross ourselves when the Priest says ‘hear the Gospel of Our Lord according to…’ 

    There is a prayer to say as you do it…

    ‘Lord, please let your Word be in my head, on my lips and in my heart’. 

    Try it at mass, and each time you read your bible.

    Fr. Matthew

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    We welcome Fr. Angus who will be offering Morning Prayer, Mass and Evening Prayer for us on Monday and Tuesday. Please do come and support him. 

    A skip will be arriving on Monday ready to start the clear out of the OLW chapel and sacristy ahead of building works starting in the next two weeks. The church will be re-arranged on Tuesday to enable the works to take place. On Friday 29th there will be a cleaning party after mass to dust and sweep the church.

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • Assembly

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    Each Thursday at 2:30pm join us live for the Dr Triplett’s School Assembly.

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  • News for week of 17th January

    Here I am.

    Speak Lord your servant is listening.

    Our first reading this Sunday tells us of Samuel. A Prophet of God who was a little reluctant to hear the voice of God.

    When God called him, ‘Samuel!’ he thought his master was calling him – Eli.

    Three times God calls him – ‘Samuel, Samuel!’ and three times he goes to Eli and says ‘Here I am!’

    The third time Eli sees what is going on and tells him to lie down and if he is called again to say ‘speak, for your servant is listening’. So Samual does as he is told and listens. 

    God calls him once more ‘Samuel, Samuel!’ and Samuel answered, ‘speak Lord, your servant is listening’. 

    Scripture tells us that Samual grew up and the Lord was with him – and he let no word of his ‘fall to the ground’. 

    How often does God call out to people we know and they fail to understand what is happening? How often have you seen the work of the Holy Spirit in friends life and they’ve not seen it for what it is? 

    Perhaps, quite understandably, they’re so pre-occupied with the world around them that they fail to grasp the enormity of what is happening. 

    Sometimes we have to be like Eli and take our friend’s hand and say to them;

    “Listen! God is calling to you. Next time it happens whisper back ‘Lord, your servant is listening’ and see what He has to say to you.”

    Fr. Matthew

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    We continue to pay very close attention to the latest guidelines and advice about keeping our church open. There is lots of evidence showing how safe churches are and we look forward to seeing you in person, or if you choose – virtually for the moment. Do consider coming to mass during the week if you are concerned there may be too many people on a Sunday. 

    Please keep hold of your stamps for the RNIB Christmas Campaign, a box will soon appear in church.

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503

  • News for week of the Baptism of the Lord

    Comfort.

    Being afraid.

    We’re starting to come to the hard realisation that this pandemic is not going away any time soon. We’re starting to understand that this new variant is incredibly easily transmitted and this new knowledge is scary. 

    That fear is understandable. For many, we’re starting to see quite how close this virus is getting. We are – perhaps for the first time – starting to see people sick first hand

    The Prime Minister has assured us that the vaccine roll out is going well, indeed I saw this morning that one hospital in London did 6000 vaccinations in one day. We can take comfort in that knowledge and in those figures. But somehow, that cold knowledge doesn’t always lesson the fear and anxiety.  

    It is a very great thing to reach beyond the figures and the reality of the world around us – and after contemplating it – reach the unchangeable love of God. 

    But it is in that contemplation and in that prayer that we most fully start to find Gods inexhaustible love and comfort for us. 

    God speaks to us not with facts and figures, not from a podium, but through the centre of our beings. He reaches out through time and space and embraces us so fully that we can not fail to feel His love and comfort. Be comforted.

    Fr. Matthew

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    With the new variant of the virus rife in Hayes we must take as much care as possible in church. It is being cleaned everyday – but you must do your part as well. Always wear a face covering, make sure you sign in and keep at least 2 metres away from others at all times – especially at communion and after mass.

    Please keep hold of your stamps for the RNIB Christmas Campaign, a box will soon appear in church.

    You can now donate online via PayPal (click ‘giving’ on our website). This is a great way to give a one-off gift and helps us claim the Gift Aid. 

    Don’t forget to consider setting up regular giving with the Parish Giving Scheme. Call 0333 002 1271 with your bank details to hand and quote our Parish Code – 230 623 503